Is prostate cancer affecting your sex life?

Prostate cancer treatment often focuses on survival and physical recovery—but for many men, its impact on sexual health is just as life-altering. Erectile dysfunction, changes in libido, and emotional distress are common side effects of treatment that can affect not only the patient, but also their intimate partner.

Understanding the full scope of these effects—and how to manage them—can lead to better outcomes and stronger relationships.

The Emotional and Intimate Toll of Treatment

The effects of prostate cancer treatment on a man’s sexual health are well documented. But what’s often overlooked is the emotional ripple effect on the partner.

“A man's partner can become frustrated and stressed from a sudden and sometimes long-term change in sex life, too,” says Dr. Mark Pomerantz, oncologist at Harvard's Dana-Farber Cancer Institute.

In many cases, these issues are not just physical—they can create communication breakdowns, emotional distance, and stress in the relationship.

Why Counseling Makes a Difference

Dr. Pomerantz recommends that couples seek out counseling or sex therapy to work through these challenges together. Support from a trained professional can help both partners feel heard and find new ways to connect—physically and emotionally.

“Knowing how [prostate cancer] may cross over to other parts of their life, especially their sexual one, can help in the decision-making process,” Dr. Pomerantz explains.

A study published in the journal Cancer in 2011 found that couples affected by prostate cancer experienced improved sexual satisfaction and function after engaging in joint counseling sessions. The study highlights how addressing intimacy as a team can be a crucial part of healing.

Open Communication Is Key

If you're undergoing prostate cancer treatment, it’s essential to talk openly with your partner and medical team about how it's affecting your sex life. You’re not alone—and there are resources available.

Whether it’s through couples therapy, support groups, or one-on-one conversations with your provider, the goal is to find a new sense of intimacy and connection that works for both of you.

Take Control

Prostate cancer affects more than just your body—it impacts your relationship and emotional health, too. Bastion Health offers compassionate virtual support and services to help you and your partner navigate these changes together—all covered through your employer-sponsored benefits.

Don’t wait to get the support you and your partner deserve. Reach out today to explore care options that address your full well-being—together.